"No" v "Yes-And"
April 21, 2013
Why the heck didn't you just give me what I asked for!
In today's business, the old adage “the customer is always right” has never been more true. An aspiring entrepreneur wanting to offer a service, let alone a product, needs to understand the importance of long-term relationships with their customers as the secret to sustainable success. Are we obligated to simply deliver what the client wants or are we allowed to actually exceed their expectations?
I for one hate being told “no” and therefore hates to tell my clients no. If I cannot deliver exactly what was asked for or if I do not feel that what was asked for is in the best interest of the client, I don’t want to say “no”, I’d rather offer that alternative in an attempt to fulfill expectations.
Bob The Website Builder
What about the situations where we want to meet and exceed expectations but cannot (due to lack of ability)? What if there is an opportunity to suggest an alternative that is “better” than what the customer asked for? Are we obligated to simply tell the client “no we can’t” and risk the relationship or do we have the option to tell the client “yes and” offer an alternative that fulfills the root purpose even better? The later runs the risk of irritating the client because what was asked for on the surface (even though the deeper purpose is fulfilled with the alternative) is not being delivered.